A Nigerian man who has been married for about three years now – has shared a word of advice for some unmarried ladies. According to Adewale Aladejana, he wouldn’t have been married if his wife didn’t ask the crucial question “baby when are we getting married?”.
The man who is apparently enjoying his union is urging ladies to stop assuming that the guys they are dating will marry them and ask the right question because they they deserve to know.
Below is what he shared on Facebook;
I have been married for over 3 years now but we wouldn’t be married when we did if my wife didn’t ask the crucial question “baby when are we getting married?”
Ladies if you have been dating a man for a year or close to a year, you have EVERY right to ask him “when are we getting married?” Two things will happen; it’s either he gets pissed or both of you will work on a date immediately. In my own case we picked a date and by the end of 2013 we had our court wedding and by February 2014 we were married.
Ladies STOP ASSUMING, ask questions, you DESERVE to know. Stop assuming you are dating because he calls you all the time and takes you out, let him ask you to be his babe the right way, don’t make excuses for him, men know how to ask when they really want something, if he needs you that much he will ask!
May common sense fall on you in Jesus name.
You too can be a social media evangelist kindly share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed. Thank you for reading.
- Miss Independent